Man's Advantage over G-d
By A. Stern
People are flawed,
prone to mistake, and are creatures that are subject to err; G-d, on
the other hand, does not make mistakes. We generally wish that we
would make less mistakes and yet it is just this characteristic of
man that gives him one up on his Creator. How so?
There are two
non-related stories that are in the Talmud that conflict - but it is
from this very conflict that can bring us a better understanding of
a deeper aspect of life.
The first story which
appears in the tractate Shabbat (127b) tells us a story about a man
who lived in the upper Galilee. He went to work for three long years
by a man who lived in the South. It was the day before Yom Kippur
and the man went to his employee and asked to be paid for his three
years of work that he may go back to his wife and children and
support them properly.
He requested that the
employer pay him but the employer said that he had no money. “Well
then give me my pay in fruits.”
The employer told him, “I
do not have any.”
“Alright, then give
me my pay in land.”
The employer told him, “I
do not have any.”
“Then give me my pay
in animals.”
The employer told him, “I
do not have any.”
“Well then give me
my pay in house wares, like blankets and pillows.”
The employer told him, “I
do not have any.”
The laborer hearing that
there would be nothing to show for his three year stint, packed up
his meager possessions and put them in a sack and went off to his
family disappointed. After the conclusion of the Succot holiday
(about two weeks later) the employer appeared at the home of the
laborer with the owed wages plus three mules, one with food, one
with drink and one with delicacies. The employer then asked the
laborer, “what did you think when you asked for your wages and
I told you that I had no money?”
“I thought that you
found some investment and put all of your cash into it.”
“And when you asked
for animals instead and I said that I had none, what did you think?”
“Maybe they were
rented out to another person.”
“And when you asked
for land and I said that I had none, what did you think?”
“Perhaps your lands
were given to a tenant farmer (who only pays after his harvest).”
“And when you asked
for fruits and I said that I had none, what did you think?”
“Perhaps the proper
tithes were not taken.”
“And when you asked
for pillows and blankets and I said that I had none, what did you
think?”
“Maybe you donated
them to the Holy Temple (meaning that they are to be sold and the
money is given in their place) .”
“Exactly! I had
given them to the Temple since my son was not interested in learning
Torah, but now I have spoken to my friends (the rabbis) and they
have repealed my vow. And just as you have judged me in a favorable
light, my it be that G-d shall judge you also in a favorable light.”
The above story is
well known and very interesting, illustrating the positive merit of
judging your fellow Jew in a favorable light. But what is not clear
is the ending: “And just as you have judged me in a favorable
light, my it be that G-d shall judge you also in a favorable light.”
We can understand man
judging another man in a favorable light since we do not see inside
the man, we can not see his intentions, we can not tell if he is
truthful or lying, so we can judge him either with favor or without
favor; we can accept him at face value or think that he is a
scoundrel. But G-d does not have our problem of lack of seeing the
inside of a person's motives; G-d sees into a person's essence and
into his soul. G-d knows if a person is lying or telling the truth.
Being that this is so, what kind of blessing did the employer give
the laborer by saying, “And just as you have
judged me in a favorable light, my it be that G-d
shall judge you also in a favorable light.”
This seems ludicrous; G-d judges by the truth!
To understand this,
let us move on to another story from the Talmud, this one from the
tractate Brachot (58a).
A good guest, what
does he say? “Look how much the host has exerted himself for
me! How much meat he has brought just for me; How much wine he has
brought just for me; How much delicacies he has brought just for me;
and all the work he has done, he has done all of this only for me.”
A bad guest, what does he
say? “Look how little the host has had to exert himself for
me. I ate a small portion of bread; I ate a small piece of meat and
I drank a small cup of wine. All the work he has done, he has done
only for his wife and children.”
This piece of Talmud
does not really reflect the truth when it comes to hospitality. For
the truth is different. Neither like the good guest nor like the bad
guest but rather a mixture of motives were there. The host has
labored both for his wife, his children, for the guest and for
himself. Yet it is a good guest who takes part of the truth and
applies it favorably to enhance the graciousness of the host in his
eyes. “He has done all of this only for me.” The
opposite is true of the bad guest; he diminished the efforts that
the host had to expend on the guest and in doing so, lowers the
thankfulness that he shows to the host. The bad guest says, “All
the work he has done, he has done only for his wife and children.”
Now with the second story
fresh in our minds, we can go back to the first story in the Talmud,
and we can now understand the blessing of the employer to the
laborer. “that G-d shall judge you also in a favorable
light.”
In every situation
there are multiple motives; some better than others. The employer
realized this and so when he blessed the laborer, he blessed him
that when G-d looks down on this man and sees his motives, G-d sees
the various different motives that go into each action. The employer
blessed the man that G-d should choose only the best motive and
grant the laborer reward based on this motive.
So too, we who can not see
inside of our fellow Jew. Unless there is overwhelming evidence to
the contrary, we should judge our fellow Jew in the most favorable
light.
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from the June 2012 Edition of the Jewish Magazine
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